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Eric J Herrholz

Always the Better Friend

The Unsung Hero of Every Circle


In every social circle, there is that one friend—the rock, the unsung hero who goes above and beyond without expecting anything in return. For many, this friend is not just a companion but a pillar of strength, a beacon of reliability. This friend is often the better friend, the one who gives more, loves harder, and stands unwaveringly by others.


Being the better friend isn't about grand gestures or public accolades. It's in the small, everyday actions that show up consistently. It's about being the first to listen and the last to leave when someone is in need. It's about remembering the little details that others might forget, showing that you care in ways that truly matter.


The better friend is the one who puts others first, often at the expense of their own needs. They are the ones who make sacrifices, who adjust their schedules, and who offer a shoulder to cry on. They are the glue that holds the group together, the peacemaker in conflicts, and the cheerleader in times of triumph.


Being this friend means being a constant source of support and encouragement. It means being genuinely happy for others' successes without a hint of jealousy. It means offering honest advice, even when it's tough to hear, because you truly want what's best for your friend.


But being the better friend can also be challenging. It often means carrying the emotional burdens of others while managing your own. It means sometimes feeling unappreciated or taken for granted. Yet, despite these challenges, the better friend continues to give, driven by a deep sense of loyalty and love.


In a world where genuine connection can be hard to find, being the better friend is a rare and valuable gift. It's about embodying the true essence of friendship—unconditional support, unwavering loyalty, and endless compassion. These friends are the quiet heroes who make life richer and more meaningful for those around them.


To all the better friends out there, know that your efforts do not go unnoticed. You are the unsung heroes of your social circles, the ones who make the world a brighter and more loving place. Your presence is a blessing, and your friendship is a treasure that others are fortunate to have.


Eric J Herrholz
Always the Better Friend

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